Sorry brotha -- I've been meaning to respond to some of your stuff but have gotten side tracked or put it off for a bit. Anyway, I thought I'd at least respond to your most recent post:
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I am reasonably sure there is still contact with OM but its still very secretive
Why do you say this? What is your basis for this assumption? Just curious, as I haven't seen you mention him for quite some time.
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I am taking a female friend to an event on Saturday ( no romantic overtones ) just along for company. I will tell W if I get the chance as I like to be up front with her. W wont like it much but too bad.
Interesting...
Can you elaborate a little?
GD
GD , still looking for your thread , do you have one going??
With regards to the A , I am not sure but had been around the house the other day and there was something she had printed out , a list of names , hers the three kids and ** OM . Plus a few other things , I am pretty good at picking up the signs now. So I am not sure , and realy it doesnt worry me too much. Probably have not mentioned it because its not "in my face" as much , which is a good thing.
As for my friend , she has been part of a group I hang around with and have known her for a few years. she has had a couple of Boy friends through that time but currently unattached. Has an interest in Motorbikes , wants to go to this event ,has no one to go with , so I said come along with me. Simple as that. Nothing exciting sorry GD
Now an update.
W arrived at home late yesterday afternoon , was quite unexpected. She stopped for a coffee and had that lost puppy look , so softy asked her if she wanted to stay for dinner , which she happily accepted. After dinner I went to clear up and the Kids took off in different directions as they do leaving W by herself. I said something to her and got no reply. Look across and she was in tears. I asked are you OK ? she said No . I asked if she wanted coffee she said "no I have to go , I can see I am not Welcome here" and off she went .
I can only guess at what went on in her head but she was here on a "normal" night , not family dinner night. So saw the house hold working as it normaly does and probably realised that its happening without her , a normal happy family doing normal things.
Unfortunatly I was left to settle an upset D who wonderered why W left suddenly.
D loves her mum and loves her home here , wants her Mum to be here spending time with her.
