His TMs show that he obviously realizes that you don't think his behavior is acceptable, but I think he is showing that unless you set stronger boundaries he will continue to operate on the policy that it is easier to ask forgiveness than permission.
I totally agree with Michelle. I DB'ed too much this summer, and I believe it might have harmed my chances. I set no boundaries (I was afraid he would cross them, and didn't want to LRT, now I see I should have) and even after H confessed OW to me, he continued to see her for quite some time. Horrible time in my life.
