R2C,
You received some excellent advice from Ping.

Try to make changes for yourself not just to draw W back and make changes you know will stick. Also try not to do too many 180's at once otherwise it may seem fake to W and she may think you're making these changes just to get her back.

Me47
H46
S13
M16
Piecing since May/09

"Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it." Lou Holtz