I am not sure you understood what I wrote to you, as your response doesn't make any sense. I have noticed this before.... Maybe this is an indication of a character flaw.... You don't listen well. Listening is also a skill we need to learn. We learn it well while we are being still.
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.