Pregnant and heading for acceptance #2

[S.T. _I Made It!]

hey, just a comment, I think we all need to stop using the word "FINE". maybe it's just me, but when that word is being WRITTEN as opposed to SPOKEN, it can come across as bitter, or sarcastic.

why not use the word "good" or "great! thx!"

she wants him to think her life is great, not so-so.

Blindsided, I think you did good on your texting and convo. You DO still want to give just enough info to make your life sound fun, w/o divulging everything, so I still think you did good. Your doing better B! but remember, you don't have to pick up the phone every time. And you can hang up sooner! Give yourself a time limit, like 15 minutes and make sure you hang up before it's up.. even set the timer on a microwave or something to remind you.

RWS, on her response to him calling back in 30 minutes, someone had suggested a while back, for her take control of the convo, because more often then not, he would not call back and she would be disappointed. I thought that was a great idea to change it around. True, she is speaking out her playing hard to get, but I don't think this hurts her. Plus, the main reason for her doing it is to make sure she's not expecting his call. If she tells him not to, then she's not wondering all night, "is he gonna call". so it's more for her, not for him.