H was here earlier. He came to take D12 out. I opened the door for him whilst in the middle of writing a TM to a friend. He stood like an idiot in the porch.

He eventually came in when I said D12 was still eating her tea and he would have to wait for a minute or two. He stood awkwardly in the hall.

He must have seen D18s car in the drive when he came in but he never asked if she was here so eventually I said D18 is in the dining room. He went in there to talk to her.

I'm going away this weekend with a female friend so I just went in and told him that if he needed to contact me about S15 at all over the weekend he would have to do it via my mobile. A short convo took place but he avoided any eye contact with me at all. He just looked at the floor the whole time. Me thinks a certain person is carrying a LOT of guilt around with him at the moment.


Me 43
XH 45
M 2.7.88
Divorce 7.10.09
Kids D20,S17 & D15