The job thing's complicated. I work a few hours a week at our gym, and do a little childcare. This summer I may be working 20 hours a week at a camp and the kids will get free camp. My son is in kinder and daughter in 1st. Once son is in 1st, a job will be easier to swing.

That said, I'm trying not to work so that should he divorce me I won't have much income and hopefully I'd get enough maintenance to allow me to go back to school to prepare for completely supporting myself. It's advice that lawyer friends have given me. So, basically, I'm trying to hold off on that. That's just part of it. With all the changes going on in my kids' lives, I didn't want to add childcare to that since they've never had to go before.


Me: 42/H: 37
T: 10 years/M: 8
D9, S8
Bomb: 7.23.07
Separated: 1.20.08
D Final 3.19.09
Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09

My life is good.