Lea
it is so difficult
especially at the beginning the first 3-6 months
then it eases up a bit
but it is still hard
we have to practice getting a life and doing things one day at a time for us
its ok to hold on to a little hope
some return..most LBS seem to get better and do eventually move on--just takes time
C is helpful
reading books on MLC or crises
mediation, religion, prayer
then before you know it more time passes and the situation shifts maybe becomes stable as the mlcer continues their journey alone thru the tunnel
you didnt cause it nor can you cure it
peace


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow