Lea it is so difficult especially at the beginning the first 3-6 months then it eases up a bit but it is still hard we have to practice getting a life and doing things one day at a time for us its ok to hold on to a little hope some return..most LBS seem to get better and do eventually move on--just takes time C is helpful reading books on MLC or crises mediation, religion, prayer then before you know it more time passes and the situation shifts maybe becomes stable as the mlcer continues their journey alone thru the tunnel you didnt cause it nor can you cure it peace
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