You sound like u are doing so well. My h does not talk to me at all, no texts, emails or phone calls but when he comes to see d he asks what I am up to that day and if I answer vaguely he gets angry so how do we be mysterious without looking revengeful and pissing them off?
Fine line this mystery thing, I say off to visit some friends - translated into going to visit parents or off to the local food store, not being whisked away by hunk on white stallion!
