For the guys with kids and a WAW

[hopeful4her]

Thanks, CBK.

I can tell the guilt on her face. I don't get my hopes up for MIL to say anything. She is one of the wishy washiest (is that a word?)people I know. Every one of her kids have issues. One is bi-polar. MIL herself has big time issues. Three kids, three different men. Currently back with first husband who is cheating on her. She has told me that she knows exactly what I am going through. You would think she express something to WW.

Off early today as I have to work on Sat. Called MIL earlier to ask if she wanted to babysit on Sat. I'm sure WW feels me taking the kids to my parents all the time, they are getting brain washed somehow. Maybe I want to talk to MIL or see if she wants to say something to me. Never answered and has not called back.

Going to do some work on that kennel for WW and try to fix a cedar fence if I have time. Taking kids to a carnival in our town after they get home. I assume WW will meet us there. She didn't say one way or the other.

It could be that MIL took WW to get her car for lunch. Maybe her sister. Possible. I assume it was OM. I expect the worse and maybe be surprised. WW car was not at the restaraunt, as I have to pass it on the way home.

Another thing I spoke to WW at the rest. the other day. How I have always supported her independence. She is a free spirit like Jeff's WW. At the start of our relationship, she was the type to serve me first and wait to eat herself. I had to change her behavior to me serving myself and eating at the same time. Getting her own accounts and credit. We currently each have all our own seperate credit cards. She admitted this and said that has become very independent. She stated she wants to come and go as she pleases and not answer to anyone. I told her that she has always made her decions and I have never held her back from anything. When she wanted to go out, she went out. I may have had a problem with whom she went out with (usually single girls and to bars)but she still went. She went to Vegas with a single friend. I was upset with that one, as we had always planned on going together. But she went. Out of town on occassion, concerts, a couple nights not coming home at all.

Their memory astounds me.