After 3 long years, H is home

[MichelleLT]

Is there a way you could pull a big 180 and go watch sports with them or something?

And what about making him appreciate what you do all day (easy my butt) by leaving him with the kids for a weekend or something?

Also some boundaries - maybe even a R talk. Say I don't mind feeding your friends, I appreciate you need time to blow off steam and I want you to spend time with them but I also need one night a week set aside for us as a family or as a couple??

I don't know how much of this you have tried, how much of it needs to be said again, or how much of it could be solved with a 180, just trying to brainstorm.

Hope something I said makes sense. I am miserable with hayfever today and drugged up lol.