I just KNOW that if I said yes, I'd like it to be just our family this evening, I'd hear something like, "Ok....fine.....I just thought it would be cool to have a few beers with my friends and watch the game....but that's fine.".......Waaa, waaa, waaa
He is guilting you into things...although I am betting you already know that. Have you two actually sat down and talked about how many nights is appropriate to have friends over?
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As for the upcoming D date.....I just don't know right now, and it's hard because it's coming fast.
It will be here before you know it. Both of you really need to sit down and talk about this. Especially if you are thinking of following through with it if nothing changes. He needs to know this and have time to show you that he can do what you ask.
I know the anniversary date is hard, I went through that not too long ago myself.
