i lost my post \:\(

another side

I am a super jealousy person.

My sweet baboo has a wonderful femal friend who is clearly in love with him (candlelight meals etc)
they even dated for awhile after his divorce

they remained friends after breaking up...mutually.

they have been friends for like 15 or 20 years...so their bond is deep

I am horribly jealous of her
i hate when he goes there or she goes to his house
ugh


however

he chose me
he tells me all the time when she comes over or vice versa and reassures me that he has no feelings like that for her

thisis where trust comes in
do I trust him?
is he telling me the truth?

I CHOOSE to believe he is
i know he loves me
i know he has chosen me

this is MY jealousy thing to overcome

have you given this guy examples of what calling or emiling mroe would look like

sometimes just saying I need more doesn't clue them in
i have found that being very clear like
when I call you if bothers m if you don't call back in a half an hour
rather than it bugs me when you don't call

works a lot better