Blindsided...you are so lucky to have all this advice. I wish I would have had it during my last weeks of pregnancy.
I agree with it all. When H would text me and ask how I was, I would either not respond or say 'fine'. I would give simple answers to baby questions. Your H and mine are cut from the same mold it seems. It drove my H nuts when I blew him off and acted like I couldn't care less if he was around or not.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!