I was served the D papers on 3/7/08 from my W of 16 Years (T18). She filed at the end of Feb 2008. We have 2 Kids 13D 10S. I have beed DBing now for 2.5 Weeks and have had one coaching session. It seems that we have good days and bad. There are times when the WAW is nice - almost normal and then times when she is very distand and downright cruel. I have been hitting daily goals and have hit many babysteps but nothing concrete. I am struggling to detach and GAL. We are in a forced cohabitating separation She blocks all GAL activities with last minute schedule changes and her own agenda. Everytime I show independence, she gets very upset and exacts revenge. Her latest is to not tell me where she is, who with or when she will be coming home. All the time insinuating OM (I believe that she is just trying to get me mad).
I have done several 180's and was posting in newcomers but had to kill the thread.
Can anyone give suggestions on how to LRT, Detach or even go dark when you are in the same house? I want to have her see what it would be like w/o me here.
