(((Thanks, Kris.)))

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Maybe you are going to have to beat his friends to the punch.


Kinda hard to do when they just show up unexpectedly.

But between me and everyone else here on the BB, I don't believe this to be true. These friends/coworkers of H's don't seem to be the kind of people who would show up at anyone's house just out of the blue, no call, no nothing. Nope, I don't think so. I think H tells them to come over to watch basketball or baseball out in the man-cave, and when I show surprise to see them here, again, for the 3rd or 4th time in a week, I get, "Oh, I didn't know they were coming over."

Sure, whatever.

Sometimes he'll even say, "Do you want me to tell them they have to leave?" *Rolling eyes*...Yeah, right! And rain on his parade?!!! Geez, c'mon, H.

I just KNOW that if I said yes, I'd like it to be just our family this evening, I'd hear something like, "Ok....fine.....I just thought it would be cool to have a few beers with my friends and watch the game....but that's fine.".......Waaa, waaa, waaa . Sometimes I don't even get the chance to respond! He'll express this immediately after the question.

Ugh.

As for the upcoming D date.....I just don't know right now, and it's hard because it's coming fast. Our anniversary is also coming up soon. Just another two weeks. I don't even know what to do about that, if anything at all! We haven't celebrated it since 2005, and even then, it was crappier than sh**! I know H has got to be thinking about it, too. He can't ever use the lame excuse that he "forgot" because it's tattooed on his arm!

Anyway.

H is working day shift today. How much do you want to bet that his coworkers will be here tonight for the.....oh let's see....4th time this week thus far? \:\/ Any takers??

Last edited by GoingForward; 05/01/08 06:52 PM.
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