H and I had a good talk last night. He clamis that he has not been over to OW house in at least a month..the only times he has seen her is at work. Also says they dont talk R talk anymore either about them or us. Claims he really didnt realize how much he was calling her and says he has not called her since I got the bill. He says he is afraid to screw up because he wont get another chance. Says things are different btw him and OW and it's not like it was before. I'm not sure I really believe that crap but he does seem to be sincere about working on our M. So I told him exactly what I need and expect from him and although it's only been two days so far so good. Alot of things were said when we talked and it's the first time I feel like he has really listened to me and not been defensive. Says he is going to try harder. I'm going out of town for a few days so I think it will be a nice break for me. This is the first time I have really told him what I need from him so now there should be no excuse either he does it or he dosent.
As for the phone bill no it's been about the same all along but I really thought this one would be different by the way he was acting with me.
