Wow H4H - sounds like you held your compusure well.
A couple of things, I wouldn't count on her mom for the conversation she is supposed to have - her mom wants her daughter to be happy and will agree to just about everything she says. At least that is my sitc. My mom is very guarded on what she tells my W - so just don't get your hopes up on that one too much.
You did a great job by not blowing up this morning - that is impressive. I am sure you were stewing the entire drive to work. You can only do what you can do.
Take care of yourself today, very emotional beginning!
CBK
M=46 W=47 M=24 (together 26) D21, S19 Bomb 3/16/08 OM 3/28/08 WAW moved out 5/16 Divorce final 10/09