Help Me Act AS IF, Part 5

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Seriously, I think there needs to be a companion site to this one for all of us who end up divorced-- a dating site! There are so many good people here who deserve happiness.

Yes, a friend of mine has given me the name of a lawyer who I have yet to call. I am procrastinating on that because it makes it all so real, but I know I should just do it. My H wants me to find a collaborative lawyer. The whole thing is so overwhelming, between the emotional and the financial, that I become paralyzed. It just doesn't seem possible that this man who I adored and respected and who treated me so well could now be doing this--but I guess we all feel that way.