Your posts are so inspiring! I know you may not feel like it, but to me, you seem to be a pillar of strength! I am struggling to get to the kind of detachment that you have and SO and I are still together, trying to work through some issues. I would love to hear more about what you did to get to a place where you could detach. My post is "can't stop talking" if you're interested in offering your tips! Sounds like you are doing a great job!