why would he pay for anything to do with your refinancing if you are keeping the house
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that's the only thing that irks me a bit, I know I will be keeping the house, but I wish he'd split the cost since he is the one wanting the D. Don't lknow how that'd play in court but I do not want to find out, I do not want to go to court and throw $$ away.

I made him the offer, he's trying to do more calculations, still wants to keep his low CS, it can happen since the difference in CS goes towards the $$ I owe him.


Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2

30something
2kids
survivor of S, MLC, A, D
I have peace in my heart, at last.