I'm sorry. I know it is frustrating. Maybe you are going to have to beat his friends to the punch. I know it is hard with the kids and his work schedule though.
I noticed that your continuance for the D is through 6/17/08?? Are there things that are going to have to happen for that to be taken off the table? If so what are they and is he aware? Maybe it is time for you two to sit down and talk about what you both need from this M.