If we were running 2 households, he would not be able to afford the car payment. He drives the car everywhere....and I am sure what other women in his life ride in that car. However, I make the payment on it each month. Both of our names are on it. It will be payed off in 2009. If we got divorced, I would let him have the car in his name and he would be responsible for it. I have my wonderful 1995 Escort that I am never going to part with (alright...eventually I will have to, but my car is awesome and is in great condition!) I only make the payments on that car each month because my name is also on it. And he has proven with his student loan and things that he isn't responsible enough to pay his own bills.

I am just really angry today and need some cool off time before I do anything. I will take today as a breather and try the lawyer again tomorrow. I hope I can make it clear that I am just wanting some information and am not wanting to continue with divorce.

Sara


Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08