I think she needs to be shaken up Fix. There is no reason to change for her...there is for you.

I am not saying move on yet, but I am saying, if nothing changes despite what you do...I would.

Fix, you are one of those examples of patience that impress me, but at the same time...man I can feel your burden in your posts.

Change something. Shake her up.

My heart hurts for you. You got your marriage, but at the cost of your realtionship. You guys are room mates at best.

Fixer...fix it. : )


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