Hey RTL,

Wow, you are really being tested right now in your life. So far you have done admirably to keep on keeping on and facing forward and fighting for whats right. Your W is being ridiculous. The way she is behaving and the things she says, its ALL about her, it cant be the best thing for your D that things are getting this ugly. Kids need fathers. So what she wanted to leave you, dont drag your D into it. It makes me mad! It must have been upsetting though that she got friends and family on side, but it IS taking sides and they are only hearing her side of course.

What has your L said about all of this now then?

Ali x
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Me: 37 BF: 34 T: 9 years
IDLYA: 2 Nov 07
Own flat: 26 Jan 08
Depression confirmed: 4 Mar
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Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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