I think she's back

[MichelleLT]

Good job on calling. Too bad she wasn't in, but it's still a good step for you to take.

His TMs show that he obviously realizes that you don't think his behavior is acceptable, but I think he is showing that unless you set stronger boundaries he will continue to operate on the policy that it is easier to ask forgiveness than permission.

I'm fuzzy about the car payment thing - are you saying if you guys were supporting two households he wouldn't be able to afford the car payment or that you are actually paying for it for him? If the latter, what would you do if you got D - sell it? Put it in his name? Finally, is there a way you could do that now so that he is responsible for it and your name is not on it?