Sara - good point. I think that she is relieved about my suggestion that I may / may not sign off the divorce. I told her that this morning. I said that I will divorce her at a later stage, when either the OM is deported or our youngest S13 turns 18. I also told her that us meeting with or without the kids is not something I want to do in the future. I told her that I do not wish to hear from her unless if it is an emergency relating to the children.
I received an email from her earlier which said:
'I know we are not in contact at the moment, but having just had a chance to sit down finally after panicking about my taught session this morning I have considered what you said today. I want you to know I appreciate what you said, Thank you and have a wonderful birthday.'
Thanks Puppy - If the OM goes anywhere near my children, I will definitely take action. My boys are very big guys despite their young age and apparently, he is a little man. So if anything is more at risk being near them than they are.
No, I have no intention to be friends with her, unless if she comes back to her senses but I will not consider going back with her. My lady friend and I get along fine and I do not want to lose that for a dishonest woman.
Finances are not a problem at all. We have already agreed 50/50 split of assets through the solicitors.
Karen43 said in an earlier post that she is probably going through MLC. She said herself that she thinks she is going through one. She has become a high risk taker.
