You are right Woog, it is all about choice. Take time to think your choices through. A friend of mine was ready to tell their WAS where to go today. I told them to give it a couple of weeks. I let things get the better of me a couple of weeks ago and pushed H too hard. So now he wants a D, it is probably where we would end up anyway because he isn't willing to work. However, he said on Friday that I gave him an ultimatum. I asked if H had any intention of ever working on the M. H said no. I told him then he needs to get out of the H. I didn't see that as an ultimatum but H did. So make sure you take the time to focus on your choices. Make sure you are ready to deal with the outcome of your choices and your actions.


R 23 years
M 20 years
Bomb June 2007
S Oct 2007
Ds 11 & 16
Ds and I moved out Aug. 2008