Thanks guys. I know that what I am doing is the right thing for me. That is what is so difficult. Marriage HAS become so disposable in society, and my family is no exception. It seems so normal to people. I hate that.
As for how I felt when I was writing it, I honestly felt a little angry. The way me sis approached it was a little passive aggressive. The original e-mail she sent was just asking me for some advice about how she should dye her hair. I responded with my opinion, and then she responded with this. WTH is that all about? I guess these are some things I have needed to get off my chest. My sister has always been like this. When I tell her something that is going on, her response is almost always something like "Well, I'm not going to tell you what to do, but you know how I feel." It is like a little backhanded comment that she thinks I am making a mistake. She thinks the kids need to really get used to their dad being gone. I don't think I have done anything to make them think otherwise, but I still feel like I am doing the right thing. The passive aggressive behavior just gets to me.
