You know Dar, it is very wrong. Why cant my H say its over and done? He could always change his mind later if he wanted to come back...but is it him keeping me on a string hoping I will hold on until he is sure of what he wants?

I think My H has this Love/hate R with the OW. HE talks good of her and then can turn around when he is mad at her and say bad things of her. I wonder if his mom or stepmom did that and he has learned that from them.

He still loves me and I think he knows it would work, but he wants to be with the OW and make sure he isnt going to give her up for me, if its going to end with them, he wants it to be because it just wont work.

Nothing about any of this is ever going to work. For one, me and the OW would never get along. My daughter wants nothing to do with her. She wont even stay with her dad now or talk to him. I think him talking bad of me to her in the emails has made her even angrier at him. She is under so much stress that she has pulled her bangs out...which is sad because it had all just grown back in there and she was having pictures made today at school and I had just about talked her into having her pic made without her hat on...but now she will be wearing her cute pink bandana.

He has not a clue what is going on with them...I bet he cant even name the condition she has.

I keep asking myself though, why do I love this man?

Kissak

"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3
M-37 H-37
S-10, D-15
M- 1993
First bomb- 12/23/06
Came and went too MANY times!
Gone again 10-25-10