Thanks GD, Addie and R2C for stopping by. Things are going pretty well on my end and really the only thing that changed was my attitude toward the sitch which seemed to change W's attitude about the sitch. It goes to show, change yourself and your spouse will change. I will keep at it with PMA, I count alot of my change to the great people who have giving me advice here on my thread, this is a great board to be at for support.
R2C, I will check you out today and give you my advice. Thanks for asking.