TY for Clarifying TGF and well put and TY Ping for your insight.
It's a difficult spot I find myself in I guess and I need to figure which way works best.
I do not bring up the R at all, just one bit slip last Friday, the other slips have been minor. I'm generally really happy around the house, because I am, no longer is it faking as it was to begin with, I am generally happier as I'm seeing more of my old friends, spending more time with my kids, getting out the house more (I get bad cabin fever) and getting more sleep.
I've smartened myself up, shave more regular, always putting on after shave and doing my hair even when staying in of an evening so I actually feel so much better in myself and more positive for 'my' future.
Think I will just continue as is for a while yet as I think I'm making fine progress. I think my W is noticing the changes and trying to make out they're for her or making it into some game, but she cannot win this game as I'm not even playing it !!!
Gotta stick with acting in a consistent way for more than just 2 or 3 weeks to get a proper undersatanding of where it's going. Thanks again for comments.
