This is a informative conv.


It seems the anger is led my hurt. Hurt they feel is caused by LBS. Does that ever change?

Yes, we can only heal ourselves. I find that hard because I have never had anyone "Hate" me so much and not know why.

It is so true to think they are treating OW or OP differntly . I sometimes picture H living a wonderful life with his OW. I KNOW that is not true.


For my H, the only thing he says after the divorce he will be civil. He sees me as his enemy.

i , too, believe happy people do not hurt others. Why say you are not angry, when you really are?


The OP IS a drug . I believe H gets closer to OW when he feels bad. So if they are rhe drug how is that feeling supposed to return???

Nutty, you asked me why H wants to keep me away from OW and his home? He was going to let me into his home until I didnt settle. OW I don't know??? Your opinion please.