Nutty, Yes his family was pretty disfunctional. His dad was also a depressed alcoholic that used to beat all 3 of his kids, especially my H. He feels his mom was a coward for not stopping it. His sister had a high school pregnancy and is now causing some major family crisis/trauma again now at 26yrs old that could rip his family apart. His mom was venting to me the other night and telling me that she feels her family is just so F'd up and she was telling me she wished that I was her daughter instead. I feel bad for them all right now. His older brother is the only one that is drama free right now and staying far away.
H text me at 1:45am and said, "maybe we can get together tommorow, I love you and I am trying to figure out where you stand in all of this". Then he text again at 2:00am and said, "I will love you for ever".
I didnt respond. But I feel I should now since he broke another boundary of not calling after midnight.
I am gonna text him and tell him to not do it again, and if he wants to talk - I am busy tonight and he will have to reschedule.
