Look at you, taking responsibility where you can, and letting go of what you can't control. What a role model. I hope you are giving yourself the huge back-pats that you deserve for doing what we all preach, and all struggle with.
That said, I'm sorry he is still so inconsistent and unreliable. FWIW, he sounds depressed, which is an explanation, NOT an excuse. Either way, not a problem you need to be carrying.
