The going dark goes well with everything but the baby. She can't go dark with that because if she did and he decided to push the issue with a FR attorney- she could be in a heap of trouble.
My suggestion was to ONLY email him and say I have an appointment on x day at x time. That's IT. She HAS to give him the opportunity to attend these appointments. Why? Parent Alienation syndrome. (PAS). If he shows, great- if not- she's told him and she can't get into trouble. IF she asks her "how" the baby is- she has to respond. Again, I would say "baby is fine". Leave it at that. IF he asks how "she" is doing- I would ignore. But she can't ignore anything questioned or asked about the baby. SUCKS... but if his GF ever decided to push the issue of this and sucker him into it.... it could come back and get BS1. I hate to say it, but often times than not the "OW" does this. Especially if she doesn't have a child of her own.
M: 39 H: 40 D: 12 S: 9 Married: 10 years Together: 11 years Dday- March 14th, 2008 Bomb-I don't love you-Easter 2008
Currently-living in same home, slowly working back towards a marriage.
