Thanx M. I do feel I'm doing reasonably well for where I'm at and my thinking is that I'm acting pretty 'as if' and just getting on with stuff, but still being nice and polite and being a good ad etc, that some of the guilt my W has not expressed is coming out but in such a way that she can't help but give the nasty comments.
Really thinking of you and your C tonight M. Hope it goes real well and remember to take an extra few seconds before speaking to digest what your being asked or to make sure what you say doesn't mess up your progress
