They hurt us deeply, out of their own great hurt. Happy people do not hurt others, unless unintentionally, and then they try and put it right.
People who are hurting say hurtful things.
This knowledge got me through some very dark days.
Just because someone has left the relationship for OM or OW does not mean they have got off ‘scott free’. It does not mean they have not suffered or been hurt. There hurt may have all been taking place during the M for many, many years.
It seems that the separation .. OM /OW gives them the strength and courage to voice their hurt.
Nutty
Be The Greener Grass.
Me 40 H 42 Son 11 Married 15 years. Left May 2006 after gambling spree I had EA August 2006 OW Aug 07 after another gambling spree (she will make me happy - stop me gambling!) I filed for divorce 9th April 2008.
