Help Me Act AS IF, Part 5

[SirPrizeMe]

Hey, LMG, in someone else's thread you wrote:

I am also torn about DBing or just trying to accept this and move on somehow.

Accepting his ambivalence *is* DBing, I think. That does not mean you have to change your mind about the marriage. You don't have to agree with him that it is no good. But you could accede to his wishes on separation.