Wow, a great post from SPM. What he described is exactly where my husband was when we separated. I *think* it's a bit better than that now, but who knows. Listen to him LMG, he gave great advice.
Yes, it sucks. I don't know what you do with all the stuff. I can't even go there in my mind right now.
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09