Living one day at a time

[Michael Mc C]

Hey Husband, been away for a while but of course had to stop in and check on ya. Sorry I've been absent...

I agree with everyone here and I know you already know this, but don't go with any expectations other than to have a good time out with your wife. HFF touched on something that I have been guilty of myself - convincing myself that things are going to turn out THIS way and then, if/when they don't, I would end up sucking all of the successes out of the evening by reverting back to my passive agressive nature.

Go. Have fun. Show your wife AND mil that you are a hell of a lot of fun to be with. Let them see you having fun with others (I do NOT recommend too much flirting with other women ).

Of course, secretly, I'll have my fingers crossed for you...