Drowning still - 23 years, feel like I am sinking

[FaithfulH]

CBK,

Just back from a trip to Detroit....and thought I would check in on you before I hit the sack. You sound awesome! Keep doing these little things for your W with ZERO expectations. Don't even expect her to acknowledge them. Unless you have to say something to her (like with the ice cream), don't even say anything to her about them. If you mention it, it could appear to her that you are seeking reinforcement like a compliment or something. You sound great! Keep doing exactly what you did today. Focus on YOU and the KIDS....let God handle your W's healing. She WILL get through this....and it will be a question of how attractive you are when she comes "out of the fog". Don't do anything to damage YOU! Since you've lost a lot of week should you go get some clothes that fit? Make sure you are attractive in every way.

BTW, I think a Doctor would say "it ain't a mystery why you're losing weight...with what you're going through". I lost 75 lbs in 9 months....since gained back 20 as my W and I returned to eating out. But, I kept up the habit of working out 5/6 days a week.

CBK, can you see what God is doing in YOU?