Pregnant and heading for acceptance #2

[NikB]

Ah ha - just realized you have a new thread. I'll copy my posts over from your old one.

RWS - if she doesn't hate me by now, I don't think B has it in her to hate you.

Blindsided - you're so great about understanding that even the very painful stuff you read here is all coming from a place of caring, support, and love for you and Kendall. I don't know if I've mentioned that lately.

OK I could swear I saw a post from you earlier about all the stuff going on this weekend - because I went to reply and tell you it's FAR from boring, and it's one of the best posts I've seen from you in a very long time. It was all about you and doing healthy, happy things for you. Am I losing my mind, or did you delete the post?
(PS: now I see it on your new thread. And I still think it is GREAT!)

I agree 100% with everything RWS, ST, and Forrest have posted, so I won't bother re-stating it all. I really hope you re-think the coach situation. Plan that he won't be there, and it'll be a nice surprise if he shows up. I would hope he wouldn't be stupid enough to bring OW but... good idea to have a plan in place just in case. He has been unbelievably dense and insensitive before.

One small thought with the going dark - I agree, who cares if he gets pissed off, and it's sure not going to make things WORSE. I thought RWS offered great responses to the situations/questions you asked about.

One thought - if you're having trouble forcing yourself to ignore his "how r u feeling?" completely, at least work on being as brief and vague as possible. Maybe wait a few hours or even a day, and write back "feeling good thx." That's it.
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I forgot to mention... I don't know how much you followed my thread in the past or how far back you might have read, but you'll see that some of the greatest, most positive times - the times I felt best and the times people were really rooting for me - were in hindsight some of the funniest, most "boring" seeming things.

I was flying high on the pride of hanging blinds and repairing the toilet myself for days if not weeks. Seriously. I can sit here now and think about it and it makes me smile. Yes, a toilet repair!