Anyway, the "decision vs feeling" discrepancy seemed to drive a further wedge between us. She was hopeless as she came to a realization that her "feeling" for me would not return all by itself. She wanted it to be a natural growth, just sort of osmosis. If she worked on it, it would not be true, ya know?
truer words have not been written, oh, how sad, that they waited for the feelings to come unbidden to them, like magic, with none of the work, they expected the bind obsession kind of emotions they got our of op, decide to love and work for their M was asking too much. I'm sorry you are going through that too SPme, you sound like a great guy, too bad she can't see it with her eyes squeezed shut like that.
Hey kiki, my good friend c2H posted for me that you can't expect a reasonable response from an unreasonable person who threw their m away in the pursuit of an ow. hugs))), hope you get better in the art of truly detaching)))))
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
