he said no, oh dear heavens he said no to the 17k. I will not incurr into a 6k debt just to pay him off.
The refinancing would get his name off the house, but won't the quitclaim have the same power? of not letting him benefit from it? Down the line, would I still have to refinance (i'm afraid the answer is yes, that I'd still have to refinance).
I sung victory too soon, he said it was absurd, he won't take that "little".
I told him he'd have to move his stuff if I got married, or in 3yrs, he said no, no way, it'd be still his house, it was a financial arraingment and that I cannot bring 'emotion' into it (when I told him that i'd be akward for everyone if I get M and he gets comes to the property still. I had already bargain him down from 2x a month to 1x. He said it was bad enough he was conceeding to the fact that my "hubby' would live there and he wouldnt get paid. That i'm just looking for reasons to make this worse.
back to square one, he wants those 5yrs or go to court, wont budge anymore.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
