Today she told me I was family to her and that she was willing to work on our issues together-the pain we caused each other. But, ONLY if I accept that we are over forever and that she is in love deeply with her affair.
Have no idea how to respond to that.
She also claims that the affair has known everything we have done together over the last year and that she was trying to "find" me while they were screwing each other.
Wide_awake,
I had to come back to post more thoughts..... They may SEEM crazy...... What kind of woman wants a dude who will screw around with a married woman? Does she NOT see he has NO respect for marriage? What makes her think he will NOT screw around on her? What woman thinks a guy who will screw around with a married woman is a "catch?"
Take Care,
NMD
"Chains do not hold a marriage together. It is threads, hundreds of tiny threads which sew people together through the years. That is what makes a marriage last --more than passion or even sex!" - Simone Signoret
