I started going to a Divorce Recovery class at a local church a few weeks ago. I went tonight, and it was good to talk to other people who are or have been through this. I realized that my sitch is not near as bad as what some people describe. It just gave me some hope that H and I will be able to work things out. Nobody has cheated, there is no physical abuse, no alcoholism, no drug abuse. Just that marital hump that people reach. I had a really good time dishing with some girls about H's etc. It was good to get out.