Today was a pretty good day, S10 had ball practice tonight and I helped out with it. W was there and was sitting on the bleachers with other parents right behind where I was at so we had some good interactions. We talked about how S7's coach kept calling his name last night and telling him to make the plays, we both found that strange as it appeared our son was the only one being coached this way. She asked if that is the reason I left early last night, I told her no and left it at that.
It feels good to have conversations about things without worrying about feeling rejected, no pressure on either side. I can tell she is much more comfortable and not worrying about me bringing anything up.
I really hope I am making progress, she stated in the beginning of this that she wanted to keep everything professional so this is in the back of mind somewhat that the only reason she is being nice is so we can keep this all professional. I will not dwell on this as time will tell.
I pick kids up tomorrow from school so I will see W again tomorrow and S7 has a ballgame Friday night.
Patience, patience, patience, that is the only thing we all have to go on in these type of sitches.