BT

STOP!!!!!!

BREATHE!!!!

You need a time out from all of this.

Can you take a weekend off from all of this and go away by yourself for a couple of days?

No more rash decisions.

Take the focus off of her, stop worrying about the stuff she does.

Do not involve the kids in the drama.

Both you and your Wife are playing games right now and someone has to start playing grown up.

There can be no testimony without a test.
I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.