thanks guys, sounds like a good choice to me too, I do end up with more money, and lots less grief. He just called me again, but wanted to make him sweat a bit, lol, plus, the kids are here and i dont' want them to hear our convo. I will bring up the loan not without first telling him that if he ever disrespects me like that again I will cut communication with him and he'll have to go through my brother for any thing kids related for a couple of months (my bro is the kindest person but a bull if you cross his path.) It is a thread i can carry, no bluff, I 'm only saying what i think i can deal with, his cursing me ends today. I'll prob call him after kids go to bed or in the morn.
Ok, have to go now, little nazy of d5 wants her puter back, lol.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
